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Being a woman in business is both exhilarating and frustrating,
especially when trying hard to be a loving wife and a nurturing mother.
Women can be powerful in business because we are usually experienced at coping with many issues at one time. We are also great networkers through our dealings with so many people in many different areas, for example, kindergarten, school, our own work, our partner's work, extended family and friends. We are born for business, especially when it's the business of life.
The business side of my life is significant to me. However, my first priority is to be a great wife to my husband Colin. My second priority is to be a great mother to my children, Matthew and Kelly. Stepping back from my busy times on a regular basis allows me to evaluate what really needs to be done, and ordering my priorities simplifies my life. A few key things help me balance my busy schedule:
- Do an "essential" thing, then do a "nice to do" thing.
- Don't get the guilts if the house is not perfect.
- Get help if things get too much.
- Plan the meals for next week.
Experiment with a few ideas, and find things that work for you.
Probably the best thing I can do for my children is to love my husband Colin, and show them that there is security in our family unit. I also believe it is very important to love my children with my touch, with my words of love for them and to just love them simply for being God's precious gift to our family.
While we are loving our children, we are also responsible for their development. It is important in our family that everyone pitches in and helps. Not only does that help keep me sane, but also they gain security by being a contributing team member. Many hands make light work, and lots of fun!
Caring for ourselves is usually our most difficult task. If we are to help grow and nurture others, we need to be fed and cared for. And if we don't do it ourselves, who will? It is essential to know exactly what we need.
- How much exercise does it take to make me feel good?
- Commit a few quiet moments to think and plan.
- What are my biggest challenges and which book can help me through?
- If the TV isn't helping me grow, then it's wasting valuable time.
Another really important thing for me is precious time with female friends who care for me and want the best for me. I always encourage women to commit regular, meaningful time with a few close friends who will encourage them to talk through their challenges, laugh at their frailties and receive comfort when grieving. Life is a wonderful adventure, and it is much more fun when we share our adventures and help others along the way.
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